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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should hope he doesn’t get half of your 401k[/quote] Why shouldn't he? [/quote] NP- because he wasn't putting money in?? DH and I both work for the same employer. I put the max in yearly 23,500 and he puts about 15k in yearly. My 401k is thus a lot bigger than his. Why should dh get half of mine when he had the same opportunity to fund his own? [/quote] Because that’s what the law says. You shouldn’t be maxing out if you think this is unfair. I think there are probably ways to argue that it is not 50-50 - like if one partner chose not to contribute to the 401k and spent all the money on themselves. But presumably the money not going into his 401k is going into joint expenses and joint assets. [/quote]
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