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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]30 lbs on a tall man is nothing. Woman here and I am surprised that this is affecting your attraction to him. I’m the one who has gained a lot over the course of our marriage and been in a constant battle against the scale for a variety of reasons, including medical. I’m so thankful my DH never said anything to me because I know when I am overweight. I feel bad and embarrassed about how I look when I am. I don’t need anyone to say it out loud to me.[/quote] Op here. He's tall but he's always been on the chubby side so 30 makes a difference at least to me. Anyway thanks for all the advice I'm leaning towards the not saying anything directly but maybe suggest we go for a walk on our lunch break to start. [/quote] Why don’t you lean towards focusing on all of his many good qualities (and complimenting him on those things frequently) rather than fixating on the aspects of him that you find imperfect?[/quote]
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