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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't. My husband and I have both lost and gained during our 25 year relationship. I'm so thankful he has never said anything to me. I mean, I knew when I was overweight. I don't say anything to him either. I think it adds more stress and isn't helpful. [/quote] +1. People know they are overweight. Harassing them about it just creates resentment and hurt. I see this in my stepmother who has harrassed my father about his weight and played food cop for 25 years. It is very depressing to watch. It's better to do a healthy lifestyle for as much as you can control. If your husband sees you eating vegetables or low fat meats, less dessert, etc. he might follow along. Do not continue to buy and cook the foods that have contributed to the weight gain. [/quote]
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