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[quote=Anonymous]So very sorry that you are going through this difficult and scary situation. We have gone through a version of this as well. Is there anything in particular, any connection you've noticed of things that seem to trigger the behavior and self-harm statements? Pressure (real or perceived) at school, things happening with friends, etc? I feel like there are so many layers to intrusive thoughts. I felt like I had some level of understanding of them in DS in that I could grasp the idea of not being able to stop thinking of something that you aren't "supposed" to think about. Or not being able to stop thinking of something scary. Our DS's therapist noted to us that kids on the spectrum can often express their inner world in very intense ways. Hopefully the neuropsych eval will be helpful in learning if neurodivergence has a role in this. There could even be a layer of testing the environment to see how you will react/respond. I don't mean in a manipulative way at all. I mean seeking reassurance, stability, optimism and unconditional love in the face of the storm that the child is feeling inside. And it sounds like you are doing a wonderful job of supporting and loving the child through this. It is so hard when you are so unnerved by what you're hearing. Lastly, I wanted to ask if the child is currently taking any meds or even supplements. I am not against meds at all. Just wanted to mention that some of the meds and even OTC supplements our DS trialed gave him dark, intrusive thoughts. Sending good wishes and strength to you, OP.[/quote]
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