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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They have low self esteem, emotionally immature (though may seem mature intellectually/successful in the workplace) and seek validation outside their marriage. [/quote]

I was coming here to ask this. It seems the common thread is insecurity by the cheater?[/quote]

You really can’t have low self esteem since if you did you would fear rejection, you have to be really confident to even try to approach the topic. I am talking about people that meet in person and aren’t online specifically looking for affairs.[/quote]

I disagree with you. These people often do have low self-esteem so when their self-esteem is stroked and peaked by another person or potential suitor, it gives them a boost of dopamine that’s off the charts. It feels good to them to be needed and wanted. It doesn’t matter if their spouse is already treating them fine at home, it’s that surge of feeling that they like. [/quote]

The newness and outside validation.  100% high on the adrenaline of lying [/quote]

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