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[quote=Anonymous]When I met my fiance she had $156,000 student loans debt. And I hate $160,000 saved to buy a house. A day after she said yes to my proposal I gave her a check to pay off her student loans and we opened joint accounts together. Initially she didn't want me to pay off her loans but I insisted.

The decision was a no brainer. She was the one. I had 3 criteria. She had to have sense of humor to match mine. Second she had to love sex and she loved it even more than me. And finally she had to love me. That last part she event above and beyond. I loved her a lot because she was kind, faithful and very nurturing. And she felt the same about me.

As you can see her student loans were a drop in the bucket as far as investment. We are celebrating our 10th year anniversary next year and the marriage gets better every year and we have 2 beautiful kids together. 2 of my closed friends are divorced. For one my friend he is at fault he neglected his wife. The other his wife turned out to be unfaithful and he is the nicest, kindest, and most attractive man I know. Now single he has many women showing interest in him.

The point I want to make is that fiding the one is hard. I honestly think luck plays a major role as I'll say as far as 50%. So if you meet the one, why throw away your luck because of student loans? Think about that OP. [/quote]

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