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[quote=Anonymous]DD at Yale. Really intelligent and went to a strong public but not as competitive as some schools, so struggled in two classes. There are some truly brilliant, genius-level classmates and that’s been hard. She’s always been surrounded by smart hard-workers so brilliance was a shock, especially because these are kids who seem to have it all and have brilliance in another area, too, like a sport or playing in YSO. She feels the difference in free time between herself and classmates and that’s tough, because she does have to study and work to get so-so grades compared to the brilliant kids. She did learn not to follow their example and that they have time to party or socialize that she needs to use to study, and that that’s ok

Her experience with clubs and activities has been absolutely dismal so I don’t blame her for feeling a bit unmoored and lonely. Anything remotely connected to her previous interests or activities was too competitive and she was shut out from what she tried to join in the fall. She felt like she lost 3 months of socializing while trying for those activities and regrets that. Even intramurals were weirdly competitive in her residential college and controlled by guys and certain cliques.

She has a handful of friends, works out a lot, and got a job at the library. It’s not the buffet of opportunity she’s hoped for and I know that’s hard on her.
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