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Reply to "Why do men rob you of your sparkle?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Not sure how old you are and if this is any relief, but I've noticed that once a woman hits menopause and gets more selfish herself (as the female hormones disappear), some sparkle will come back. There's nothing else to it than putting yourself first. Most women lose their sparkle with family and kids, especially if they're responsible and want the best for their offspring. It's difficult and time-consuming, not leaving much time or energy for yourself when childrearing. Husbands dumping much of the work on their wives of course makes it worse, which is why women often blame their husbands. The blame is often justified: if husbands cooked more often, cleaned more often and participated in the "mental load", the life would be easier for their wives. Most women have quite had enough after 20-25 years of the same old, same old, doing most of it themselves, because nobody else is willing to step up to the plate. Add to this old parents and good luck with your sparkle! [/quote]
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