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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your wife has never had an orgasm in 20 years of having sex with you, and you have never addressed this?[/quote]

It sounds to me like they did address it.  She is more or less asexual.  He knew that even when they were dating.

I’m confused about what it is that he wants to “address.”  Is he proposing to change her sexual orientation 20 years into marriage?

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Agree:  she is the “A,” and in:

The A in LGTBQIA++.   It’s simple, gay males want sex with biological males; lesbians prefer sexual relations with other women.

Asexuals prefer to have sex:  NOT AT ALL.

Not even with themselves in many cases (and OP’s wife has never had an “O” even alone).

You may be wondering about how her kids exist; she likely tolerated her husband doing it to her so that she could get pregnant.  That does not mean she enjoyed or desired any part of it.  Maybe they did IVF.

But the bottom line is:

- her sexual orientation is a complete mismatch to that of her straight male husband.

That’s the issue.

Occasionally “tolerates sex” is not a substitute for a love life and OP should not have to put up with it or live that way.

If she refuses sex-therapy (alone or as a couple),  have the marriage annulled for being mislead, and move on to dating straight women who have libidos.[/quote]

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