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[quote=Anonymous]If you think this will not impact her career, then 28 is great! I had mine in DC at 29, 31 and 34. I was very young in my first kids’ private school circle. Other moms called me a “ baby” and many thought I was the nanny. With my third this never happened and I was closer to the average parents’ age (still younger than most, but not noticeably so). For me having kids youngish was good for all the reasons you mentioned. I got pregnant first try with all 3, easy pregnancies, was back to my pre pregnancy body in 1-3 months. But… I was the first in my friends’ group (by 4 years) and that was hard… I still hold some grudges for the way I was treated back then. Also, my career never took off. I work and happy with what I do and my work-life balance, but I have a PhD and will probably never make a lot of money. Overall, I am so happy with my kids and where we are in life, but I wish I had waited until I had a stable position and a good career.[/quote]
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