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[quote=Anonymous]Pp above again. People’s traits are facts. Sometimes, one is just more beautiful, smarter, kinder, and sometimes even luckier. Those are facts based on social norms. However you want to deny it, you will be convinced again by the social norms. I don’t think many of us are powerful or confident enough to ignore or redefine these social norms. However, one should define their own happiness. Maybe one version of it is to focus on what you already have and take positive actions to improve things you are not satisfied. for instance, maybe your husband will never be as successful as your sister’s, but can you working on building a good relationship with him so you feel more loved and content in your marriage? 
In terms of luck, my older one actually often refers to that when mentioning her sis. I think that is a misunderstanding. She often ignores the hard work behind that. Another observations I had is that when you are kind and positive, people tend to be gravitated towards you like magnets.you are more likely to be supported or even favored. It’s easier for you to get things done. When hard work combined with support from people around you, you feel “lucky”. Some pp mentioned about women’s good looking. Maybe my girls are too small. My older one is better looking than my younger one in every definition.[/quote]

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