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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have never blamed my ex's affair and the implosion of our marriage on the other woman (and in this sentence I am talking about the woman he now publicly calls his girlfriend, not the legion of women before her who I found out about after we split). He made the choice to cheat, to lie, to betray our marriage. He is responsible for that choice and it's stupid to blame her for his choices.

That said, I am pissed at her in a very different way. She knew he was married and she and I knew one another before the affair began (they were coworkers). She can't pretend I was some stereotype of a neglectful/evil/unfeeling wife. I just don't understand how she got involved with him and it absolutely colors my interactions with her because I can't respect her. I play nice, never say anything even remotely negative about her in front of my kids, and I even feel a little sorry for her for believing he's not treating her the same way he treated me. But I am definitely not over my pissed off feelings. [/quote]

I'm sorry you went through all that. But even if you were a neglectful, evil wife, he could leave and then start a new relationship. What I don't understand about the "evil wife" story, is WHY people don't think, "hey, what does it say about this guy that he married a loser wife?"

Just saying it is no excuse. Anyway, sounds like ex's new girlfriend got what she deserved, a cheater. Good for you for taking the high road.[/quote]

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