Reply to BF's relationship with ex-girlfriend

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "BF's relationship with ex-girlfriend"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend was in a long-term relationship that ended 6 years ago because of lack of intimacy.  She was going through menopause at that time and no longer wanted to be intimate and he said that they also grew apart in other ways.  They remained on friendly terms and he is close to her kids who are young adults.  We have been dating for a little over a year now and his ex-girlfriend continues to reach out wanting to meet up with him and at times, sending him messages or she shows up when he meets up with her kids.  I'm feeling a bit uncomfortable about all of this because it is clear to me that she has not really moved on (she has not dated since they broke up).  I trust him and I don't think he has any romantic feelings for her and I know that he loves me a lot.  We have a good relationship, great chemistry and many shared interests.  I'm thinking that I should probably just let this go and not worry about it, but I can't help my feelings from time to time.  He told me that she is lonely, has very few friends and seeks out his companionship.  [/quote]

Don't worry she is post menopause now and she probably looks like crap [/quote]
That’s what OP wishes based on other posts but men can still love or at least be emotionally attached to post-menopausal women. Men lie about and downplay the other woman all the time. She could be fat, ugly, old, lonely, whatever, and that theoretically puts GF #1 at ease, but the heart wants what the heart wants.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics