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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]You assume that the cheater is intentionally trying to hurt their partner. That's generally not the case. The cheater is usually just looking to fulfill something missing in the marriage--likely something they've asked for time and again to no avail. Each partner must accept responsibility for what is, or is not, created in the relationship.
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You are a cheater's apologist.  Studies show that the majority of people who cheat also say they are in a happy marriage.  Most people cheat because they are looking to fill a void in THEMSELVES, not a void in the marriage.  Choosing to cheat is 1000% on the person making the choice.[/quote]

Choosing to cheat is of course the cheater's decision. I don't think that is in dispute. [b]As for why, what leads to it, and all of that, it's never black and white.[/b] [/quote]
Incorrect. The why doesn't matter - only the action. Did you cheat, or not? If so, that is your choice. Stop trying to blame your sh**y choices on your spouse. You are the only one choosing to disregard marriage vows, not the person sitting at home being faithful. [/quote]

Your vehemence about this subject is intense to the point of being oddly captivating. Have you ever considered a side hustle in a dungeon? I suspect you would happily administer punishments without ever tiring. Fire and brimstone, fire and brimstone. [/quote]

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