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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, you have every right to feel creeped out by this. [/quote] +1 Agree. OP has a right to feel whatever she feels about this, especially as she's the betrayed spouse here. And those PPs shrugging off OP's feelings by saying how jewelry from their exes is no big deal, no emotion attached -- those situations are not at all comparable to jewelry given by one cheater to another cheater. In this case, former AP =/= "ex" in the sense those PPs are discussing. They're giving the AP cover by implying she's probably just wearing the necklace because, pretty necklace, but how the AP regards the necklace is not the point here; OP's feelings about it are the point. OP, I don't think you've been back to say how you came to see this necklace in a photo. For your own mental health, please, do not follow her (or follow anyone who follows/tags her) on social media. If you have mutual friends you feel you "must" follow on social media, well, I'd tell them you're cutting back all social media, it's taking too much time, you're going to just essential uses for your work or kids' school or whatever, and stop following them too. Just hiding their posts in your feeds will not necessarily prevent you from caving in and taking a peek at hidden posts to see if she's on there. [/quote] Op wouldn't know if she wasn't looking for it Mind the business that pays her. Or don't stay married to a cheater [/quote] You didn't read past the first paragraph of the post you're responding to, did you? Or if you did, your reading comprehension is very poor. [/quote]
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