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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If his kids are all in high school at this point, can he just spend time with you and your kids when they aren’t there? His kids may never want to spend time with your kids and/or you. Once they enter the college and adult years it will become obvious if that’s the case. Rather than focus on his kids, which you have zero control over, you need to make peace that they aren’t going to fit your desired narrative. [/quote] I thought OP said he had 100% custody. Probably difficult to only see him both (all?) of his kids are not home. I agree with some of the other posters that there's not really a need to mix the kids together at events. Or, if it's absolutely necessary just accept that his kids and her kids will be doing their own thing which isn't really that big of a deal. I also agree with some of the other posters that OP should lean on him hard about getting them mental health treatment. I mean, while it's not her choice I think it's fair to advocate for a professional opinion regarding whether they need additional help. [/quote]
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