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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am so confused. How does you moving to another chair because of light being in your eyes makes him bring up paying for the mortgage?[/quote]

He feels rejected.  She probably didn’t say that she was moving because the light was in her eyes or invite him to move with her.  They were sitting next to each other, and she got up and sat somewhere else.

She’s acting like it’s all innocent, but you wouldn’t do this to a friend or to your child.  You wouldn’t sit next to your kid reading and then just get up and walk to a different part of the room.

So, he feels rejected, and he’s like, “if you’re going to reject my presence, then maybe I don’t feel like doing nice things for you any more.”

They are both being childish.  If she went over and told him that the sun was in her eyes, but later tonight she would make sure he wanted to pay the mortgage, then it would be over.

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Wow. Quite the apologist for this DH, I see. You chose to focus on the "light in my eyes" thing and somehow think it's legit to be offended about her not explaining a simple shift in seating. How very delicate of you. [/quote]

Yeah.  Again.  You wouldn’t “simply shift your seat” away from your kid or your friend without explaining.

It’s legitimate to feel hurt if someone gets up and moves away from you.  I would be hurt if I went to sit next to my husband on the couch, and he got up and walked away from me.  You wouldn’t?  [/quote]
No, because I’m not five years old.[/quote]

Really?  Like sometimes you are snuggling with your kid on the couch or you are talking with your mom, and the sun gets in your eyes, so you just get up and walk away?

Your behavior is unusual.  Most people would pull down a shade or invite the other person to go to another room.

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No they wouldn’t, and you’re insane.[/quote]

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