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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sarcasm is a bad look, especially past your 20's. No jokes. It's not funny. Too much messed-up communication and deniability based on, "I was only kidding." or "you're too sensitive." He either thinks and says what he wants to say or he keeps these thoughts to himself since they aren't worth bringing up.[/quote]

This. This right here. "I was just joking" etc. is not only an immature way to communicate, it lets the "joker" feel they're always, always right and have no need ever to examine their own communication or motives. It's highly toxic. If one person in a couple does not perceive the "joking" as actual joking, that is not being "too sensitive"--it's being a mature adult who prefers adult communication over childish passive-aggression. [/quote]

They were both being passive-aggressive.  Getting up and moving to another seat when your spouse comes in the room is also passive-aggressive.

I don’t think this was the best tactic for him to take, but what should he say?  Just ignore it?  [/quote]

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