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[quote=Anonymous]We talk to each other when doing things all the time, that seems completely normal to me. If we had to wait until the other person was doing nothing, we wouldn't speak.

It isn't clear to me when you want him to speak or if generally you expect him to not speak to you at all? When are the times in the day that you are doing nothing where he is allowed to speak without irritating you?

If my husband told me that I am not to speak to him at all unless he is doing nothing and that I am to be silent in my own home unless I get the okay from him to speak, I would leave. I think it is pretty disrespectful to control someone else to the point, they aren't allowed to speak to you in their own home.

I just can't imagine that with such a busy life, there are many times where you are truly doing nothing and therefore he is allowed to talk to you.

Are you sure to never speak to him unless he is doing nothing? Do you teach your kids that they are not to speak to you or him or each other unless the person is doing nothing?

I would find that an extremely rigid and silent and controlling way to live life.[/quote]

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