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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I identify with you, op.
The issue is my dh doesn’t want to connect. He wants to talk about himself. His work issues, his problems his concerns his stress.
If I don’t stop and say “well now I’m going to talk about something going on with me!” He would never ask.

I leave the house to go for walks if I want to listen to something. I lock my home office door.
Or I started going out of town for 48 hours solo.

I can’t change him. I can only change myself and my approach. [/quote]

I was going to write something similar. The things he wants to say at me are always some variation of 1) too much work 2) not enough work 3) other people get paid more than him. He doesn’t do anything besides work and hang out with the kids so there’s not much to talk about. Plus he doesn’t have any friends left and he wants me to take the place of all his lapsed friendships. I am honestly at a point where I just do whatever and he will have to deal. I have asked him to go to therapy again many times and he won’t so I am not going to make myself crazy because he wants to use me as a coping mechanism for his own imbalanced life.[/quote]

Pp here with chills reading this. I’m the op of the “new me” thread. I started taking mini trips solo to spark joy for myself and frankly get away from his crazy. Coping mechanism for his imbalanced life- I understand this more than you know.[/quote]

Thing is why should women be the ones to leave the house? We are behaving and trying to relax/ get things. It’s the men who are annoying, making the mess, talking over the house, being noisy so they should damn well go out. Don’t understand men who spend spo much time at home annoying women. Just bloody go out - you can got to the bar, gym, see  your mates ffs
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