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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was all team Jenn during the finale but those texts really make it seem like she threatened to break up with him multiple times and he probably just finally had it.  [/quote]

I don't think your take is right.

My take:

Devin goes back to real life and treats his show-mance like it was just play-acting.  He bread-crumbs Jenn and isn't responding to her for weeks/months.  At some point, she says the stuff about breaking up -- like "maybe we should just break up" since she's tried of being ignored and ghosted.  It's not that SHE wants to break up, but she's seeing the situation for what it is:  her so-called "fiance" is no longer interested in her.  So, what do you expect a logical person to do in that situation?  It's not that Jenn ever wanted to end the relationship, but she could see that she was in the relationship pretty much by herself.

Devin is just trying to selectively use bits and pieces of their conversations to make her look bad and make himself less hated.[/quote]

You just made that up in your head though. Nothing about Jenna’s thinking during the show made her sound alike she would be healthy in a relationship…and using I will break up with you as a manipulation / game is further evidence of that.

I know people love to hate but I have no issue with Devin ending the relationship when it wasn’t healthy for him. Jenn wasn’t in love with him on the show, and clearly the relationship was never a healthy one.[/quote]

Yes, I provided a realistic scenario based on all the information we have.  Jenn said he ghosted her after they left Hawaii.  He admitted that.  Devin puts up clips of Jenn's texts saying they should break up.  The through line is that Devin left the relationship (he admits that) and that he supposedly had doubts when he agreed to marry her and asked her to marry him.  So, it doesn't take a lot of imagination to see that Jenn was getting tired of his absence and finally said something about breaking up. You cannot convince me that Devin is the victim in this.  His action caused Jenn to think that they were breaking up.  She was just the first to say it based on Devin abandoning the relationship (He admits abandoning the relationship).  [/quote]

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