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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You both sound miserable, to be honest. I predict you two will divorce in 2025.[/quote]

How is the OP miserable when this man actually told her “what else do you have to do that you can’t help with this” and she’s working FT and managing all the load of being a parent and managing a household while he doesn’t help? She’s a problem for being resentful? Absolutely not. You’re trying to gaslight this poor OP too. [/quote]
Sounds like he is working. She is now earning twice as much as he does, and in the past he outearned by twice as much. But, somehow she seemed ok when she was earning less, but is not ok with him earning less.[/quote]

When I earned less, I did disproportionately more around the house, cooking, cleaning etc.

I still do all of that, plus kids, and making more.[/quote]
It has nothing to do with the income one spouse makes. That he doesn't help with the kids and the house is your only legit gripe here. All the rest is you being a horrible partner. He asked his spouse for help, what is wrong with that? You can turn it down, instead you are lashing out BCS he doesn't earn as much as you. Just the fact that you can't stop and take any advice shows that you are not a loving spouse.[/quote]

What's wrong with him asking her to be his secretary for his side hustle? You can't be serious. She is already fully employed. This is simply his way of being passive aggressive. He'll do what she wants but not without burdening her. Plus OP said he doesn't like his job! Why the hell hasn't he found a better, more lucrative job? Because he's lazy and has lost his manhood. [/quote]

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