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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder how much you are unable to forgive the actual act of the affair vs

1. Being stuck in a marriage you can’t leave
2. Giving up a career trusting that you would not be screwed financially in the end
3 The fear he will do it again.
4. The feeling of being a fool
5. The knowing that someday you will be “broke” and you will be forced to grin and bear   It at your kids weddings.
6. The feeling of being pushed in front of a bus.
7. The ridiculous need to be “strong” so your kids never have to see him in the real light?

The only way to forgive is to be in a position to leave if you want or stay because you want knowing you could leave and be as happy or happier than staying.[/quote]

I’m in a position to leave.  No financial strings at all on my end, I’m fortunate to have truly amazing friends, I’m confident in my ability to pursue career 2.0 of desired/needed.  I’m generally a secure person.  I have a great relationship with my kids and they are out of the house. I have loving and supportive family [/quote]

Then divorce him and start a new life.  You deserve it.[/quote]

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