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[quote=Anonymous]My exDH was like this. Also traveled a ton, tacking extra days on both sides. We divorced when the youngest was 9. On his custody days, he managed to step up and do what needed to be done. I wish I’d drawn firmer boundaries when the kids were younger, as other posters are suggesting, eg by swapping pickup days. While he might not have done things the way I would have liked (eg, left kids at daycare until 630p), that’s also the way things are if you split. Instead I ran myself ragged, and a lot of resentment built up. Our marriage wasn’t able to recover from that (plus he cheated, but that’s a separate story).[/quote]
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