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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m going through something similar. Not crying out of being overwhelmed, but DH gets defensive/upset anytime I express hurt feelings or disappointment.  He could easily acknowledge them, but would rather I not have feelings.  It sucks and I am close to being done. [/quote]

Your feelings are only interesting to you. Men find them boring. If you get divorced then you might find another man who will pretend to be interested (like your DH used to) for a while but eventually he will stop and you’ll be back where you are now.

Would be a lot easier for you to learn to process your feelings by yourself, like a grownup. Or you could pay a therapist to care about them.[/quote]

So, what you’re saying is that you don’t believe in emotionally supporting another person. Man. Someone must’ve effed you up as a child. You have my sympathy and I hope you get the counseling you so desperately need. It breaks my heart to think of all the people who die without ever understanding the true value of relationships [/quote]

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