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[quote=Anonymous]He cheated in his first wife. I knew about it but he framed it in terms of her serious untreated mental illness. He said he'd stayed with her because she basically couldn't work at the time, but they'd been living their own lives for a number of years. He slept in the living room and she slept in her bedroom, etc. For me, young and stupid and in love, I felt sympathetic to him having stayed with her. Of course he had other relationships while he was taking care of her -- totally understandable (I thought). But guess what? You guessed it! He didn't think inappropriate relationships outside of marriage were actually a big deal. He hadn't been sticking it out to take care of his first wife in her time of need. Instead, he has an innate sense of inertia and blames his own actions and inaction on other people.[/quote]
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