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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, you should do it. And don’t take this the wrong way, but you should also lower your expectations for what you need to do wrt your DS. It’s OK not to maximize every single therapy and possibility. You sound like an amazing mom who will continue to be amazing but it is simply not rational to forgo this opportunity because you’re killing yourself to be super SN mom. My kid has more mild needs and my career isn’t the greatest - but tbh I’m kind of lazy anyway and wasn’t meant to have a high flying career anyway. [/quote]

Op here. Thank you! You’re probably right. I’ve gotten more intense around DS as we’ve been leading up to kindergarten which feels like a big inflection point.

My only fear is I do feel a bit of imposter syndrome….like I can’t believe I landed this job? I’m not the highest energy person. I just have a super niche skill set. But I quit my job 6 months ago because I couldn’t handle working my normal job (not super cool Scandinavian job) and my DS (and other kids). It’s scary to think about going back to work, moving overseas, etc. But I have truly been preparing for this for 20 years….like ever since college. I can’t remember a time when I wasn’t trying to make this happen.[/quote]

Honestly, I see you lasting 6 months at the most. If you can't handle US + normal job there is no way you are surviving 3 years overseas. [/quote]

Cool it, PP.  OP has a great opportunity and she is rightfully nervous. Can we just be supportive?

[b]Scandinavia [/b]is far more family friendly than US, so quality of life will be better.  My only slight concern is that they don't really have an emphasis on preventive medicine and they can be anti-vax.[b]  As a country, [/b]their healthcare system is better so they can absorb the shocks of getting sick, and work sick leave is better.  Just make sure that your community will get down syndrome.  [/quote] Sacandanavia is not a country [/quote]

Is this job with a US company or a Scandinavian country? If it's a US company, does the Scandinavian sick leave benefit apply?[/quote]

Op here. I need to keep the details vague because of how much I’m sharing here, sorry. The benefits are great though. [/quote]

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