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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Keep going with this, it’s either going to work or it’s going to blow up.  But, come on now, you’re out of s second marriage, you’re 50 in a long-distance relationship, did you really think this was going to last for the rest of your life?[/quote]

The whole point is OP does not think this will last for the rest of her life but she would prefer it be monogamous while it does last because she generally prefers monogamy and the emotional connection it offers.

This is a long distance non-monogamous relationship. Totally unclear what it really even offers OP other than the occasional hook up when they are in the same city and some nice phone conversations. I would move on -- plenty of people in their 50s who would be up for a monogamous relationship without all this drama. And the fact that this guy doesn't even sound particularly comfortable with OP dating other men while they are together is a massive red flag -- he's either actually up for a non-monogamous relationship or not. It really sounds like he just wants to string her along as an option for him while he continues to play the field.[/quote]

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