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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son who is 20 pays for everything for his same age girlfriend. Both are in college. They eat at expensive places he can’t afford. He chauffeurs her around because she has no car. She doesn’t visit him at his dorm but he goes to her apartment to visit or get her where parking is very expensive. I am really deeply bothered by it but I keep my mouth shut because nothing good will come of me expressing my opinion. I love that he is generous and she has a lot of good qualities that make her a great GF but it’s over the top. I’m not saying he shouldn’t take her out but can’t she ever offer to at least cover herself? He works hard all summer at his internship and has nothing by the end of the school year. He never spends anything on himself. I have no idea how he will save to move out after college at this rate. [/quote]

Where is this money coming from?

And if they are going on dates, isn't he enjoying them as well? That contradicts "he never spend anything on himself."

And it's totally normal for a guy to pick up his girlfriend for a date.

And he probably goes to her apartment because it is probably nicer and more private than his gross shared dorm room that he probably doesn't keep clean enough. If he goes to her apartment, don't they eat there some? you are saying he never eats at her apartment? If he eats at her place, does he pays and bring over 100 percent of the groceries? I doubt it.

You sound like a nightmare.[/quote]

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