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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, none of you get anything from your husband for Mother's Day? Seriously nothing? Do you get nothing for your husband for Father's Day? I usually get a card and something small for my husband. And vice versa for me.[/quote] Np here. My husband doesn’t really do celebrations / doesn’t want them for himself. Like he didn’t want me to take him to dinner when he finished his PhD, doesn’t want to do anything for his birthday, and definitely doesn’t want anything for Father’s Day from me (happy to get a drawing or a hug or whatever school project from kids). For Christmas this year he sent me the link to the sweatshirt he wanted. I’ve generally come to accept this. When I turned 30 I told him “I want a cake, friends to eat it with, and I don’t want to have to organize it other than giving you email addresses” and he pulled it off. I was angry the mother s day I told him I’d had my birthday, had our first child, Christmas, our 5th wedding anniversary, and our 20th anniversary of our first date with nothing and would like something nice for Mother’s Day and got nothing. Not even a card. That was 11 years ago. But…yesterday I planned an outing and we all had a really nice day. He’s good at other things but not holidays. [/quote]
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