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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, YATA. You should have offered to hire help before this, but is that the plan now that the burden falls on you and your other sister?[/quote] Can you read? She did try that but mom and sister chose the now abandoned arrangement. [/quote] Oh, I can read. And this is what I learned: The place OP's mom lives was the best option when she was looking. OP rarely spoke to her mother, so she has for five years had no idea what her mother needed or where she (OP) could volunteer to pitch in. OP's sister handled everything she could. When she occasionally reached the end of her rope and asked OP for help, OP did not come through. OP's sister left after five grueling years. OP still isn't calling much or doing much, but now she feels a little bit bad and extremely put upon. And OP thinks that's her sister's fault.[/quote]
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