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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I left mine up for a few hours after catching him. I debated whether I should “test” him by sending him a match (to see if he’d bring it up). I left it on and open to his profile but then I decided to just confront him instead of “testing” him, which felt ridiculous. I have since deleted it. But my point to him was, I left mine up for several hrs and got tons of notifications. I feel there’s a slim chance he was unaware that his profile was on.[/quote]

Immature and toxic both of you. Just be done with this guy and grow up [/quote]

I understand why you are calling my behavior immature & toxic. But when I was married, I 100 percent trusted ex DH until he cheated. I never went thru his phone, email, etc. I feel like I can’t be that trusting ever again, which is why I was trying to see if my bf had an OLD profile. I only left my profile on after I found his to figure out what to do.

This is a complicated part of dating that I’m still trying to figure out — how do we draw these digital boundaries. Bf reached out again and he is swearing he left it on and forgot to delete, with no notifications that it was on. I feel so confused. [/quote]
You are simply not ready for a relationship. That is reason enough to end things. You have children who should be your first priority. Anything which causes you pain, doubt and distraction is not good for you and it is bad for your kids. Scrub your OLD accounts, work on yourself and healing from your marriage and then try again.[/quote]

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