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[quote=Anonymous]I learned the hard way there is a difference between doing good deeds with though and being totally naive. You have to be street smart. You let her know it's a one time thing and you pay in cash so if she does damages you aren't responsible. You know the risks-she will tell others, she will ask for more and you have a plan for how to have boundaries. You can feel good you did something generous and have boundaries. I appreciate the people I help out who simply say thank you. I have had those who then expected more, more more and tried to manipulate me or whatever. I can still feel good that I tried to help, while also feeling secure in saying, I am sorry, that is all I can offer.[/quote]
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