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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. Threatened me with physical violence, did not physically harm me. We were arguing, both yelling, both swearing and it escalated.

I have a long ago history in an abusive relationship that was life threatening violence and it’s not something I’m going to deal with. DH is aware of the history.

DH has gotten himself into individual counseling and anger management, but I’m waiting to see if it sticks.

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Guess what, if you were in an all-out fight, swearing, yelling at each other, you were BOTH being verbally abusive to EACH OTHER.  You both lost it and you don’t get to just arbitrarily say “oh this thing he said crossed my red line,” you BOTH crossed several lines before you got to that point.  That’s not the dynamic of an abuser-victim relationship, that’s two people abusing each other.

You both need professional help and you need to get off your high horse, OP.  [/quote]

Swearing is not the same thing as threatening violence, especially if the person threatening violence is much larger and more powerful. [/quote]

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