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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. Threatened me with physical violence, did not physically harm me. We were arguing, both yelling, both swearing and it escalated.

I have a long ago history in an abusive relationship that was life threatening violence and it’s not something I’m going to deal with. DH is aware of the history.

DH has gotten himself into individual counseling and anger management, but I’m waiting to see if it sticks.

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[b]In my experience threats were a precursor to violence[/b] I. Which my ex tried to kill me. When someone shows you who they are, believe them…the first time.[/quote]

People say this a lot. Can you make sure you protect yourself, OP, by talking to someone both with and without him to see what a professional thinks? There may be a lot more to this than what you wrote in the post (either purposefully left out or repressed). I'd hate for you or your kid to end up finding out what his first actual act of violence would be. (And to be clear, I do think threats are serious, so I'm not saying he hasn't committed verbal violence at this point). [/quote]

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