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Reply to "I filed for divorce today and feel awful"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, have you at least thought about an open marriage, or one in which dalliances aren't regarded as the death of the marriage? (e.g. if OP meets a woman playing tennis, or OP's wife meets a single dad, or whatever.) I suspect most of the Defenders of Marriage on this thread would blanche at the idea, but ... It's at least debatable if "Mommy having a boyfriend" and "Daddy having a girlfriend" is less damaging to kids than "Daddy moving out." It all depends on how intrinsically jealous you two are, how your kids are (I suspect after about age 10, it starts being preferable for the kids to have divorced parents as opposed to "Mommy's boyfriend" or "Daddy's girlfriend always around.) And, let's face it. The idea that husbands and wives have to do every-frickin-thing together is a fairly recent construct. If OP's wife is coming home and trying to get all her support from OP, that's not healthy either. [/quote]
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