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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband doesn’t do simple things around the house and for himself and then claims I’m bossing him around? For example, I’ll cook dinner and serve it. He gets up from the table and goes to play video games. I ask him “hey do you mind putting your plate in the sink?” And he gets huffy with me. Another time is when I’m in bed already, he’s in the living room watching tv and gets up to come to bed. When he comes in the room, he’s getting under the covers and I said “honey, are you going to turn the tv off?” He gets huffy again and says “I’m sick of you bossing me around”. Same response when I told him he had food on his face and to wipe his left cheek. Generally I have a pleasant demeanor and am not accusatory or anything. [b]What do you do to not come across bossy?[/b][/quote] F that. This is not about you, it's HIS problem. Him: "I'm sick of you bossing me around." You: "Then take some goddamn responsibility and take care of your own $h!t without having to be told."[/quote] [b]That’s such a terrible unhealthy dynamic.[/b] Why get married just to bicker like that? [/quote] No, what they're doing now is bickering. And being a doormat is hardly a healthy dynamic. [b]OP needs to firmly say what she means and shut this nonsense down[/b].[/quote] No, she needs to stop being married to this loser. I never scream "divorce" on posts, but this is ridiculous. THIS IS HOW YOU END UP WITH THESE LOSER HUSBANDS PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT ON HERE ALL THE TIME. [/quote]
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