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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this may be hard to believe, but I am going through something extremely similar. Like, essentially the exact same thing. Keeping up appearances, avoiding talking about it to others, the secondhand shame. And the hyper vigilance of protecting the privacy of kids and fear that others will find out what is going on. It is exhausting, mortifying, crazy-making.

If you may want to connect, anonymously, please create a free anonymous email (ProtonMail) and post it here and I’ll email you. It is a very unsettling and damaging position to be and the legal stress is never ending. I get it. I truly truly feel for you because I do know how it feels.

If not, please know I am thinking of you, wishing you strength, and some semblance of peace as this unfortunate chapter eventually will come to an end. And it will. Remember that life is long, there is more out there meant for you, more good in life for you. I promise. Hugs to you. [/quote]

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this as well! I think it’s a slippery slope for us to email, even anonymously, but we can both use this thread to vent and offer emotional support to one another. How long has it been, and when is the end in sight for you?[/quote]

Understood. Offer stands if you change your mind. My ex’s is sex-related and the trial is in the fall. I have already divorced him and we are in touch only related to the kids.

I agree you need a therapist. They will keep confidences; it’s their job. I also recommend you consult a divorce attorney if you have not already. They can help you work on the steps you need to take now before filing. [/quote]

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