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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. There’s something else I implied but should’ve explicitly stated earlier - spouse is unaware of my plans to leave after the trial. I do feel guilty about this, but they have been under so much stress that I honestly feared they might collapse if I told them. Did I do the right thing?[/quote]

Please talk to a therapist.  When you're under this kind of stress, making huge life decisions isn't ideal.  If you truly believe your spouse didn't do it, then maybe leaving immediately isn't in your long term best interests either.  Or maybe it is.  But perhaps a really good individiual therapist for both of you plus some marriage counseling, at least for a few months, is better than just leaving.

Being single and divorced after the trauma of what you went through isn't going to be great either, not for you or your child.

Sending you lots of good wishes.[/quote]

I appreciate your perspective. My reasons for wanting divorce are actually unrelated to the case. Spouse and I were having issues long beforehand; it’s just that I’ve set that aside for the past 2 years so we could deal with this much bigger problem.[/quote]

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