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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I don’t see divorce as an option because then my kids would be with him unsupervised half the time. He lives in filth and is not capable of maintaining a household. His office and the garage are areas he has control over and it is not possible to walk through them or even see the floor. They are overflowing with trash, papers, computers, junk, etc.

I can’t let my kids grow up in an environment like that. I’m staying married to avoid that scenario and so I can ensure that their needs are met. [/quote]

This sounds like a mental health problem and not just a lazy guy. What have counselors told you about how to proceed? Any ideas on what exactly is wrong with him? Also, if you are worried about divorce and him having unsupervised time with the kids - do you know if he would even care? It sounds like he doesn't do anything for the family and is not invested in being a parent. Maybe he would check out completely if you were divorced? [/quote]

IME people like him often use the kids to generate income from ex. [/quote]

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