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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP and I don’t mean to be insensitive or tone deaf. Having a useless spouse sounds like a unique kind of hell, so definitely am not including those pairings in my original premise. It is a lot to keep track of, but it aligns with my personality and strengths, so I find it easy enough. My husband is happy to take care of household maintenance and is quite handy, but I am definitely the director. He does stay on top of the car (except for cleaning it out, which I lead!) and handles the random financial charges like taxes, random fees etc - I handle the day-to-day, monthly bills and debt servicing and investments. I think overall a happy marriage, like a happy business partnership (which to a large extent a marriage is), plays to its participants strengths and is grounded in respect and appreciation. Thanks for checking me on my blind spots.[/quote]
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