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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Before we met, I had a hobby that I participated in at a semi-pro level, for lack of a better description. It was expensive, fairly risky, and health/opportunity-dependent. Think sky diving or scuba diving. It brought me so much joy, but seasons change, and for all those reasons, I no longer participate. I [i]could[/i], but it would take even more money and a lot of logistical hoops to start up again.

DH really wants me to go get back to it. I'm ambivalent. I like the idea, but not enough to jump through the hoops. The problem is, he sometimes made snide remarks about me quitting. I am 100% certain they're meant to jar me into action, but all they all know is annoy me.

How do I let him know this isn't going to happen again?

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Are we married to the same man? DH is so disappointed I have no interest in rock climbing anymore, despite having been quite good before kids.  Really, I don't want to.  I would rather stay at the four seasons than a tent or camper at the bottom of a crag.  I just say maybe someday, but not anytime soon.  Crazy thing is I'm still extremely fit and love running and yoga, so it really is just about the sport and the risk involved.  I do have my eye on the senior category for the spartan races when I retire.[/quote]

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