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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is he pressuring you? Does he think you miss it? Does he want to live vicariously through you?[/quote]

He knows I miss it. He knows how much joy it brought me.[/quote]

He's looking for a solution for you. Are you telegraphing unhappiness and wistfulness? [/quote]

I'm very lonely and isolated. I've never had many interests outside of this particular activity, but like I said - hurdles. I know that sounds like depression, but it's not. It's just a LOT of hurdles. Example: if this was scuba diving, I would need ear surgery across the state, then months of healing, then all replacement gear, then academic work, then pool work...

You get the idea.[/quote]

NP. Okay, I get it. Can you take up another hobby, something less intense? Try other things. FWIW, I NEVER thought I'd like yoga, but here we are, with me doing it four times a week. At the same time, tell him straightfowrard without smiling "I am not going back to horsebackriding. Your snide comments will not spur (ha ha!) me into doing it, they just make me angry at you for being mean. So stop it. I don't want to hear your obnoxious comments about it ever again. Are we clear?" [/quote]

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