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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so old (age). I have been with Dh for over 20 years and never got to do online dating.

I was thinking about heels and walking. I would not want to go on a walking date on a first date, assuming I made some effort and got dressed to go on this date.

Is the disagreement about walking so the guy doesn’t have to buy coffee or dinner?

That sounds cheap and awful. I would not want to go on a walking date. If I liked the guy and I was wearing comfortable shoes and the weather was nice, I would love to take a walk AFTER coffee or dinner or a drink.[/quote]

I don't understand. When you used to go on first dates, did you not discuss beforehand where you were going/what you would be doing? How else would you know how to dress?

I agree that I wouldn't want to go walking if we were supposed to have coffee or dinner. That kind of switch up isn't a good sign.[/quote]

I actually went on a lot of dates back in the day. It was always dinner or lunch or maybe it was a non date and we met up at a bar but I would be with other friends. My dates were with people I already met or knew. It is different these days because a first date could be with someone you never met before.

Even now with my husband 20 years later, if we are going on a date, I get dressed up and put on heels.

I have never been asked on a walking date. During Covid, I would meet up with a friend and go on a walk and bring my own drink. [/quote]

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