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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do I keep attracting women who want a serious relationship? I am 47, divorced, 2 kids and so far I have had to end 3 relationships that started as friend with benefits on OLD. They were 33, 39 and 48 and each relationship ended about 6 months after it started. I make it very clear from the start that I don’t want any more kids, I don’t want to remarry, I don’t want to live together, I just want us to hookup as needed. Yet each one was okay with this but slowly starting asking for more.

The only thing I can see is the issue is that while they were FWB relationships I nevertheless treated them with respect. I call them, text them, etc. To me that’s basic human relationship.  Yes I am passionate person, I hate interesting hobbies, I am a people person so perhaps I could be sending the wrong vibe…

Is there some kind of “algorithm” to find those women who don’t end up wanting more after initially agreeing to a purely sexual relationship?[/quote]

Despite what people here tell you, there are plenty of women out there capable of having an NSA relationship without falling in love. You're either treating them as girlfriends and providing emotional support beyond that of basic respect or you're subconsciously targeting women who are looking for more even if they say they don't. It's impossible to tell.[/quote]

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