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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]OP, call him out on his BS.[/b] My DH tried this because that is how his military dad talked to his (mostly) SAHM mom. FIL was an insecure, frustrated little man, and the ILs thought this was acceptable. Of course, the kids did, too, and a couple of them are equally insecure, frustrated and little. The MIL literally physically jumps for men, it is fascinating - if not positively sad, to see in action. [So, she is not one to choose the right side, and often pairs with whomever is more stubborn, as both MIL and FIL are stubborn.] It is never acceptable for anyone to talk to you this way, especially your spouse. End that shyt, even if you have to do it in front of everyone else (like he does). He asked for it. [/quote] Call it out. Nothing to discuss or argue about. Calling out and if he starts an argument call it out again and say it needs to stop. Then walk away, with the kids. [/quote]
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