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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My exh made very similar comments until we feel out of contact after the divorce. There were a lot of variations of "you will not be successful" and "I will be ridiculously successful". He even claimed he would be the US president and I would watch him on TV with a different first lady. Anyway, fast forward and I'm much more successful than he is, both in terms of salary and job prestige. My advice- don't try to overanalyze this. He is trying to make you doubt yourself and lose confidence and that's all there is to it.

When he makes comments like that, if you seek to "understand his view" it only encourages him to ramp up the verbal abuse since you're falling for it by pretending it is anything other than abuse. Also, don't tell him he is being abusive because that is also encouraging to him so he can discuss how you deserve it.

Just shut it down with "that's the most [b]narcissistic [/b]thing I've heard an actual adult say" or "okay Larlo, keep flapping your gums, who cares if no one is listening". Your central message: idgaf what you think. [/quote]

yup

petty
narcissistic
delusional
psycho[/quote]

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