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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really sorry for your loss. What you are going through is so unfair, and I really wish you healing and peace.

That said, I also don't think they did anything wrong, and if anything were trying to distract themselves from their nerves for their own appointment. I always get anxiety before my OB appointments and need to bring something to distract myself so this honestly could have been me - except crochet or embroidery instead of knitting. [/quote]

Even if this were the case, there were plenty of other seats. If the person starts crying harder, how about moving somewhere else? Literally we were the only 3 people in the office. And this person sat right next to us.[/quote]

Okay, now that is very strange, for a waiting room to be practically empty, and then for someone to sit right next to you, a crying couple. That is not a person who has social skills or awareness. And then to bust out some baby clothing knitting? That's a classic Tragedy Vulture move. Tragedy Vultures are a kind of narcissistic person who feeds off sad things that happen to other people. Did she try to talk to you?

People can be weird at OB offices, though. In the waiting room at the MFM office, there was a very AMA mom there with her husband and she was loudly praying to god to forgive her for being such a sinner and questioning His Plan by getting an amniocentesis. Like super duper loud, calling a lot of attention to herself, in a room full of women who were all pretty on edge anyways.

I am sorry that happened to you, and I dont' understand why people here are being so insensitive.  [/quote]

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