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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If this were my kid i would back far away from this club and possibly even travel soccer as a whole. Youve made him believe his identity is tied up in being on the best team and nothing else matters. "Best team" is highly subjective and he is 9, so this attitude is very misguided. Honestly maybe bail, join a rec team for the spring and also add in another sport to remind him that its meant to be fun. Try something he hasnt done before so that he isnt the best and learns to enjoy it and grow. Flag football, basketball, swim, golf, lacrosse, whatever. Try out for another soccer club for the next year, with renewed passion.[/quote]

A good soccer player should go play another sport he's not good at to boost his confidence and self-esteem? [/quote]

Im PP and I wasnt saying to boost confidence or self esteem, I was saying to gain perspective. And to get back to a place where sports are fun and not all consuming and to not have your identity wrapped up in one thing. No matter how good of a soccer player he is, he is 9. And clearly is taking this way to intensely.[/quote]

All top players and exceptional players take it relatively intensely.

The average and mediocre do not.[/quote]

Give it a rest. Intensity at age NINE is not some guarantee of anything in the future except higher risk of burnout. Plenty of kids turn up the intensity later on and peak at just the right time for real success. [/quote]

You people raising these soft spoiled kids love to throw around the term burnout.
These kids around here aren't putting in that kinda work constantly and consistently to burn anything. 
Just another excuse to be a quitter.

If the little effort we doing here causing burnout, then South America, Africa and Europe should be littered with the bodies of 11 year old burnout kids and no one would make it to professional level.[/quote]

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