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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell your dd to “trust the process” and never limit herself when accepting invites for the next night (if she gets 4 invites for a 4 party night she should accept them all and not just the 2 she really wants). [/quote]

“Trust the process” is the biggest crock of BS.  It’s a $hit show for everyone and unless you know girls currently IN the houses, set your expectations very, very low.  If you wouldn’t be happy joining the least desirable house, don’t rush. [/quote]

well my DD had a very tough rush. Was a legacy at one house and on a rush crush list for another one that she had a friend from childhood in. Ended up being cut by almost all, including those two, after the first round. Had only her bottom ranked houses left, including one that she actually liked but was considered a "lower-middle tier" house that she had never heard of prior. Was VERY hard to tell her to "trust the process" having been cut for seemingly no reason but she did stay in rush and ended up at that one house that she liked. Two years later, she still wonders if it's the right place though she has a solid group of friends, she has not necessarily found "her home".

It's a brutal process and yes the girls need to be flexible on where they go, and realize that they can always drop before initiation if they don't like it, and rush again.

She is in rush now and tells me how girls come in and say "i don't need to be here" and give one word answers to her questions because they are not interested in the house. It's so rude and disappointing how some of us have raised our daughters.   Those girls might find themselves with no options so the message is to always be polite and respectful no matter where you see yourself.

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